What Is Worth Your Time?

2010 July 13
by Grace Boyle

After attending a financial planning event (at a wine lounge, mind you) the point that struck me the most was about finding and understanding your financial values. Those values are what you will spend your money on, no matter what because they fulfill you as a person and continually make your life worthwhile. You can read the post I wrote on my financial values here, but in addition to the monetary value, I started to think what are the things and people that are worth your time?

What in your life, is worth your time? No matter what – no questions asked and you will always fit it in.

We reach dips, lulls and highs throughout life and in those moments I’ve found solace in knowing the things that were worth my time, were there. This also is true in times when you feel you’re so busy you don’t really breathe.

For instance, I’ve already had four separate out of town visitors in the month of July and one more on her way tomorrow. Amongst the whirlwind of life and work, I made time for yoga, reading (even if it meant one page), some time with a glass of red wine and the people closest to me, planning trips to get away (travel frees me) and finally, delicious food.

Me: caught, mid-dream in silence

It meant I woke up before 6:00 AM to make it to yoga before work to get some time alone, to stay centered and to exercise.

I went to bed earlier than normal to have my eyes rest on the page of soft paper instead of a glaring computer screen.

It meant I had to plan (even a week or two in advance) a date with my peoples, my boyfriend, my friends and family with that bottle.

I bookmark ideas for trips, make a Google Doc of ongoing places I want to travel to and create travel alerts for flights. My energy and effort is toward travel, it helps ensure it happens–>I book flight(s).

Finally, I made sure to still eat. Delicious, indulgent food that makes my toes curl and my eyebrows raise.

Those are my things. My values. Amongst the insanity, I put extra effort because I knew it was necessary and what I needed. Simple things really and you know what, they’re always in my ‘back pocket’ as my go-to’s, folded into my life. Thankfully.

What are your things? What is worth your time?

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  • This was great- and I think I go through periods of making time for the things I love and then totally ignoring them....it's a serious see-saw with me. The things that I know I NEED are yoga, sweating, family time, friend time, time to sing.....time to sleep- which I neglect all too often, and yes, definitely time to be alone....to travel- which I know that I currently don't make enough time for. I also know that one MASSIVE thing is making time everyday to do something little, plant a seed somewhere that could flourish and make my life more abundant, whether that's with a friendship, or a future step closer to my dreams coming true....I jsut have to make sure I make time for it, but I don't make it my whole existence- otherwise I miss the present time I have.
  • @Chels TOTALLY. It's just so hard we get going with life and then forget, oh wait, those are the things I need/want/desire. It's so important to our health and well-being, even if it's something small like "garden once a week," or "go to yoga," or "have a phone date with my best friend," etc. It keeps us in check I think - no matter where we are in life.
  • Jamie-Lynn
    Great post, Grace. I'm finally in a spot where I am settled into both of my jobs and my new apartment and can actually start making time for the things that are important to me. Many of them are identical to your list. I've started heading to the gym again (the goal is 4x a week, still getting there!), putting in as much effort as possible at work, coming home to pre-planned meals so I spend minimal time in the kitchen and still have wonderful dinners, finding time and economical ways to hang out with the boyfriend and other friends, and reading before bed. It's so relaxing and a perfect way to unwind from the craziness that is life. It's nice to see other people making time for the things they love too :)
  • @Jamie That's awesome - sounds like your post-college life is unfolding nicely. It is SO different from college, isn't it? ;)

    It's just important to have outlined what you need and want - it makes for a happier and more satisfied life, I think. Thanks for sharing, dear.
  • My Bulldog. Starting right...now.

    For the next 30 minutes. That is where I'll be - couch cuddling my little chunk of meat. It's simply the best part my day.
  • @David Your Bulldog...always, right? :)
  • Dmbosstone
    I just finished written a future post about bloggers that struggle after writing for a year and I think that making time for it is a big part.
  • @Patrick You're right, making time for blogging is a big part of it. I just wrote that post on accountability last week because I think about it often (I've been blogging for 2 years).
  • My son. My friends. My family. After that, it's all relative.
  • @Norcross It can be simple - it should be simple. Unfortunately, so many people don't have it figured it out. You've got it down pat, and you're right, after that it's all relative.
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