Put Your Money With Your Values

2009 November 23
by Grace Boyle

Recently I attended a financial planning presentation and wine tasting at a swanky lounge in Denver. The event was hosted by Cascade Financial Management and presented by the lovely Stephanie Bruno, a Certified Private Wealth Advisor. Targeting women and financial literacy I knew it was something I wanted to attend and let’s be honest, there was wine.

The event was intimate, with no more than 8 women entrepreneurs and young professionals. Stephanie talked about how women relate to money and the importance of financially planning for you future. Her notes were relevant and we talked about credit card debt, loans, savings, investments, budgeting, retirement planning, relocating and how women view their finaces in comparison to men. I loved all the information but the one piece that struck me the most was talking about our financial value proposition.

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Stephanie asked each of us to reflect on what we valued, what is important about money to each of us and what would we spend money on, no matter what? I thought about my financial value and realized I was willing to spend and always compromise when it came to: Wellness and Travel/experiences.

I have a gym membership and also a Core Power Yoga package just because it’s my time to check out, stay fit, healthy and happy. I believe in yoga – it has gotten me through tough times and helps me stay centered.

This last year, I have taken almost 10 trips across the country. I like to spread out my PTO with long weekend trips, almost once a month. I have friends and family around the country and I feel alive when I’m traveling. It’s good to get out and move. Experiencing a change of scenery is important, to me at least. For the above mentioned, I don’t cringe when the money is spent. It’s well worth it and that’s where my financial value lies.

Other people love bleeding edge technology, marathons culinary classes, building and buying gear for your car – you name it, the point is, understanding what it is. Stephanie pointed out that there’s a distinct difference between goals and values. Goals are tangible and values are core to who you are.

These are the (paraphrased) takeaway notes I gathered from Stephanie:

  • As long as you understand where your financial value lies, you can set the stage for how you spend and save money. There are certain things you don’t want to compromise and that’s okay.
  • Ensure it’s a balance.
  • Your values are core to who you are. By understanding your financial values, it’s easier to make decisions.
  • Ask yourself, “Does your financial behavior match your values?”

What’s your financial value? Do you focus on your finances and budget? Do you know what’s most important to spend your money on ?

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  • Hey Grace!
    Great post. Sounds like it was a cool event. I definitely think that travel is the highest up there on my spending list.. even if I have to save for a while to get where I want to be financially (Sigh, nonprofit salaries..) Either way, it is def important to know your values and how they relate to money - especially since we always carry baggage about money whether we like it or not.
    Happy Early Thanksgiving!
  • @Beth It was a cool event. Delicious wine, food and great conversation. I like your point about us all carrying baggage about money, whether we like it or not. I wonder if we're able to rid ourselves of financial woes and be unattached? Seems pretty difficult, especially in this economy and in the U.S.
  • We have similar financial values! I, too, believe in yoga to the point where being able to practice (at CorePower!) will always be a priority. And I've spent my PTO the same way - never taking a full week off, but tacking on a couple of extra days for a long weekend so I could go more places more often.

    Oh, we are going to be fast friends lovely! :)
  • @Doni YAY! I love finding those along the same path with the same vision. Can't wait!
  • Well another way to look at this is that what we value can sometimes be a hobby we enjoy. And we all know that hobbies require lots of money and we cant put a dollar figure in terms of value because no matter what we get out of it, we wont get a return, it is only about the non financial return we get that is important
  • @Thomas You definitely don't get financial return from hobbies or things that you might enjoy doing (unless it happens to be a revenue generator). However, you're right that the return can be far more beneficial in terms of value and experience. Thanks for sharing, Thomas!
  • Sounds like a really useful seminar. I also value travel very highly. Me+husband are currently saving up all we can to have a decent downpayment on our first house, but everything else goes to travel. We went to Israel this summer where I spent money like there was no tomorrow on experiences like horseback riding in the Golan Heights, to come back to frugal living in the United States.

    I actually remember reading somewhere (can't track down the link now) that we are happier when we spend on experiences as opposed to items, so both your fitness and travel priorities would be proof of that.
  • @Vicki You bring up a great point about spending money on experiences rather than items. I completely agree with that! Thanks so much for sharing.
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