Still here

2012 July 27
by Grace Boyle

I realized today, that it had been a week and I hadn’t been to even look at my blog. I know it may sound trivial to you, but to me, over the last four years my blog has become part of who I am.

For three years, I intently posted on this blog 1-2 times a week. It came to me easily, I was bubbling with ideas and was so excited to be part of this new community.

Today, I am just as excited. In fact, I think my blog came up 10 times this week with a stranger, in a business meeting, in a handful of emails (readers still email), with family that was in town visiting and at work. It still is very much part of my personal brand whether you know me online or in person. I love that.

I know this blog will always remain. I suppose it has become entrenched into me and recently, with the surprise of the Forbes mention friends and family that I didn’t even know read my blog, have been congratulating me. It’s a forever work in progress but it’s my progress and it’s close to my heart.

But something has shifted.

So please know, even if I’m not here everyday or even if I don’t post for a period of time it’s always on my mind. I don’t feel guilty (maybe at first I did, but that’s not a good emotion to harbor), but I do feel honored to be part of this community and honored that you’re here, reading these words.

Instead, I just may be deeply involved in another project, hustling at my job, writing freelance about food and restaurants (I’ve been doing that for 3 months now in addition to my food blog!) or just waiting for that great story, to share here.

Essentially, what I’m saying is thank you. I’m still around. Hope you’re well. Thanks for being here. Happy Friday.

Pleasure

2012 July 9
by Grace Boyle

I’m a big fan of Molly at Stratejoy and having met Molly and spent time with her, I like it that much more. She is wonderful!

I subscribe to Molly’s Joy Juice (prompts for greatness and growing, go sign up) and I really enjoyed the latest “Pleasure Points” juice.

She asked:

What tastes bring me pleasure?
What smells bring me pleasure?
What sounds bring me pleasure?
What feelings (temperature, tactile, body) bring me pleasure?
What sights bring me pleasure?

These are important to ask and understand. I call myself a responsible hedonist, the blend between indulgence and responsibility. I understand it’s a bit of a paradox, but with my Italian life, joy for food, wine and traveling it all just makes me an indulgent person. I’m sorry I’m not sorry. However, I volunteer with regularity, I understand when to back off, giving back is integral to my life, I don’t spend or make millions and I value wellness/my health. I balance it.

The things that first come to mind.

Tastes: Avocado, Bhakti Chai, cilantro, the crunch of tempura in sushi, a bite of BBQ chicken mixed with a baked potato and baked beans, soy sauce, lavender lemonade, aged sweet and thick balsamic, red wine (really, any), Humboldt Fog cheese on a crostini with fig, vanilla bean, simple, very thin crust Italian-style pizza, cream cheese slathered on a toasted everything bagel, maple bacon and anything from my garden.

Smells: The cement after rain, sizzling BBQ on a spit, mountain air, the essential oil jasmine, pine needles ‘toasting’ in the mountain air and sunshine, my nunnie and mom’s kitchens and sandalwood.

Sounds: The pop of a champagne cork (it means celebration!), the gliding of my snowboard through powdery snow, the rhythmic sound of horses hooves against the hard ground galloping, laughter, when I was young hearing our garage door open, it meant my dad was home from a trip, lapping of waves onto the sandy beach, bumping music with windows down and cicadas/crickets chirping through the night in Iowa.

Feelings: The moment I step onto my yoga mat, the serene moment after yoga class, adrenaline in the pit of my stomach – it means I’m being challenged and something powerful is on the other end, seeing a best friend or family after time apart, butterflies after a kiss from my honey, the night before a big trip, as the plane takes off and that moment when you’ve been worrying about something, then you do that something and walk out of it exuberant because it was way better than expected (in fact, you killed it) and you realize worrying is silly.

Sights: White capped mountains after surmounting a hike above the clouds, the colorful houses of Positano, Italy, making eye contact with a stranger and smiling, watching a couple steal that look at each other, when I come home from a long day and my honey has made my favorite meal and he’s in an apron, my large family all together on holidays, the ocean (no matter where I am), watching happy surprise spread across someone’s face, any new landscape I haven’t been exposed to before by traveling and a large table, filled with food and drinks with my favorite people gathered around.

What about you? What brings you pleasure?

She Makes Hats – 10,000 Hats Project

2012 July 4
by Grace Boyle

I was recently approached by Robyn of She Makes Hats thanks to my friend, Elisa of Ophelia’s Webb.

Robyn is undergoing a lofty, yet impressive project of making 10,000 hats for 10,000 people. I love this idea and it reminds me to keep my goals in check.

Robyn reached out to make me a hat, I got to pick the design and color. I went for a bright green and Robyn went to work. The hat arrived swiftly and my hat is #107 in her project. You can see her blog post here sharing her project and my particular hat with photos I sent her.

Ironically, the week the hat arrived was one of the hottest of Colorado’s and our state was on fire with a multitude of wildfires. I still had to rock the hat, but I really can’t wait to wear it with a blazer and cute tall, black boots come Fall and even for snowboarding trips up to the mountains!

Thanks Robyn for your generosity. I’m so happy to support your project. If you’re interested in being part of it, you can find Robyn here. Get ahold :)

Building Your Career Network

2012 June 27
by Grace Boyle

I have a close relationship with my Alma Mater and told our Alumni Relations to please send any student my way if they were curious about blogging + social media and/or if they are moving to Colorado as I am happy to help with relocation questions. Not to mention, this blog has established a voice around relocation, career, finding your voice and the next step in life so I find people I’ve never spoken to, outreaching. I love it.

I have received many emails or Facebook messages since I ventured out this way on my own and I found my answer has turned consistent.

Your immediate network and your peripheral network are your strongest assets.

Obvious, right? Maybe not always if you have just graduated college and are comfortable on campus or near your hometown you have those luxuries in front of you with support. Moving elsewhere, you won’t. At least not right away.

Before I left for Boulder, I created a spreadsheet and emailed everyone I knew. This list included family, family friends, friends, professors, old colleagues, internship sites – you name it. I trusted all of them and had a good relationship with them. What people often forget is your family friend that has nothing to do with the industry you’re interested in, may know someone who is. Or just someone who may reside in your new soon-to-be-home and could be a great friend.

Don’t just reach out to people in your field and don’t forget, the power of numbers.

I told my long curated list my plans to move and asked if anyone knew anyone in the Boulder/Denver area. I expressed I would love to be introduced or meet them if they felt comfortable. It was a simple request.

This list, through a professor who knew a friend in Boulder, led me to my first job. Note: This blog helped secure the position!

After three fulfilling years at that job, I found the itch to transition. I wanted to be challenged and was ready for something new career-wise.

Another close friend, mentor and my boss at my last job introduced me to the CEO of a TechStars startup (where I am now). Without much thought we were just chatting about the industry and he mentioned they were hiring if I knew anyone. A few days later, a lightbulb came on and within two days I was hired and had signed an offer letter. It went quickly and the ‘vouch’ of my network who introduced me and my previous work, was enough to move into this new, bigger role seamlessly. It was a fit.

Granted, everyone’s story will be different. But I can’t stress enough not forgetting everyone around you in your life, Twitter (access to thousands more people you may never have met in person) and continuing to expand your network.

The business world is small. Even spanning the country I find old business contacts or clients I run into at my current job years later and that withstanding relationship helps. You just never know who you will work with, interact with or connect with in the future. Keep that in mind and don’t doubt the power of a relationship. Just don’t.

So, go work on that spreadsheet :)   (and keep your LinkedIn, Twitter or even Facebook network current and relevant).

NOTE: Thanks to Forbes who pulled from the top 100 list for Top 10 Websites for Millennial Women and including Small Hands, Big Ideas. I know what it’s like to need advice and help, so if there’s anything I can ever do. I’ll always try to help!

Forbes: Top 100 Websites For Women 2012

2012 June 22
by Grace Boyle

On Wednesday, I saw a tweet from Forbes congratulating me for making their Top 100 Websites for Women list.

I blinked. Then laughed. Wait, what?

Small Hands, Big Ideas: Grace Boyle has written from the minority perspective of a 20-something women who works for a tech startup since 2008, and chronicles her travels, relationships, career hiccups and “big ideas” on a daily basis.

I took a deeper look then saw the list and saw Small Hands, Big Ideas featured there (page 6, alphabetical). Not to mention, in their headline image compiling logos of some of the websites SHBI’s logo made the cut. Little hands indeed (right-hand corner).

As I cruised through the list I was so impressed by all the amazing women I was amongst like Pioneer Woman, Smitten Kitchen, Hello Giggles, Huffington Post Women, A Cup of Jo, Danielle LaPorte and even Pinterest .

I am honored and subsequently have myself some new reading material. For the full list, read here.

With a mother as a life-coach who helps women break free from self defeating beliefs and brings women to Italy on an annual retreat each year and girlfriends that are wild, passionate, incredibly intelligent and strong I feel lucky to be part of empowering women. I hope I can provide a sliver of inspiration, laughter and support.

Thanks to all my longtime readers and supporters.

And if you find yourself landing here from the Forbes article, here is a good place to get started on my Best Of page including moving/relocating, career, relationships and life.

UPDATE: Forbes pulled from the top 100 list and also created Top 10 Websites for Millennial Women and Small Hands, Big Ideas was included!! Thanks Forbes, for making my week. Hope you all enjoy, I’m among some amazing women there too and love reppin’ Gen Y.

Much love,

G

Childlike Wonder

2012 June 20
by Grace Boyle

On our recent flight to St. Lucia, on the first leg out of Denver, we sat next to a girl (probably in high school or college) who was shaking with excitement and anticipation. I just assumed she was excited for her trip and I kept myself buried in my latest book.

By the time she had taken her 10th photo and we hadn’t even taken off yet, she looked at me wide-eyed and gasped, “This is my first flight!”

I raised my eyebrows in surprise, then softened into a smile mirroring her energy.

“Wow. That’s so exciting!” I replied.

I was actually touched by it and I learned she was going to a Mission trip to Haiti with a group (they were from Wyoming). Boy is she in for a ride.

She kept asking questions about what happens when you take off, paying close attention to the flight attendants safety presentation, asking us what different buttons did (“Um, that’s a light…”) and taking more photos.

As I kept reading my book,  I kept glancing up at her and the entire time she was batting her eyes and grinning.

I couldn’t help but feel that infectious grin. I can’t remember the first time I flew, because I was less than 1 year old and was flying overseas with my family.

Travel has been in our life since the beginning and it’s not something I take for granted, but it’s also become part of the everyday. Since college I have always lived far away from home and I purposely spend my money on the experience/travel.

I thought to myself on that flight about this sweet girl. I thought, why can’t we all have more childlike wonderment? Flying is actually incredible. We’re shooting through the sky so incredibly fast and can be brought across the world to see something, new different and enlivening. We can’t help that we may have done it so many times it isn’t new, but it doesn’t mean we can’t be giddy with excitement.

It helped remind me of my firsts and all my senses from the feelings, to the seeing, to the sound. I couldn’t help but giggle to myself. Just thinking about those times made me happy.

It was a kind reminder. To exercise joy. Just as if it were one of your first times experiencing X.

Here’s to more childlike wonder. Because seriously, we all could use a little more of it.

When I Travel I Always Bring…

2012 June 3
by Grace Boyle

I traveled every week this past month. Sometimes, weekday then weekend trip. I was definitely tired but I said one thing, “I will not get sick.” I love to travel and am not too sensitive, so I just plow through from business trips, to weddings to graduations. Game face.

Now, May is behind us and there’s one big trip to St. Lucia in two weeks (!) for James’ sisters wedding. We can’t wait.

I’ve made it. Came skidding in, hands in the air, a little disheveled, so many wonderful memories, grateful and many Foursquare check-ins.

Since I basically left my suitcase out all month, I figured these were the things I always wanted to bring no matter the kind of trip or the time of year. It served me.

  • Rescue remedy. I’ve written about it before, it’s like natural valium. Calms you, makes you smile and just relax.
  • Always a jacket/something warm. I was in Santa Barbara recently and in Colorado it was 80 degrees. I was all, it’s not going to be that cold there. YET – it was breezy and chilly in those vineyards in the Santa Ynez Valley. I wish I had something more substantial besides my little cover-ups. You will always find use for either a hoodie or something warm that you can wear out, or snuggle up to at night. No matter the season.
  • Tide Pen. Lord knows I’m a food feign and I’m all up in the local food culture wherever I go, even if the trip is strictly business. I’ll always find time for food. I’m a little messy at times, but James is notorious for shirts getting stains (he wants to open a restaurant one day called, The Stained Shirt). I find that having it in my purse, when we don’t have access to a washer/dryer knocks those stains on their asses.
  • Stack my iPad with books. I would rather turn to an extra book instead of my computer, if I have the time to crush a few novels I’ve been meaning to dive into. I love that planes are still not all wireless because it’s like a vacuum of time where there’s nothing else to do (can’t move, gotta read). Stock up.
  • Set of work-out clothes. I used to not work out on my vacations and I still don’t all the time, but I find a quick jaunt in the fitness center at a hotel or even a brisk hike/walk along the ocean resets last night’s wine dinner or late night. To have it available (doesn’t take up much space) also encourages me to get my bum moving.
  • My vitamins. I was so insistent on not being sick, I brought all my vitamins from multi-vitamin, vitamin C, vitamin D and Cold Snap. Maybe it’s placebo here, but I felt stronger taking them daily (out of small ziploc) and it helped me not go crazy.
  • ZaggSparq. I love this thing. It’s charged up and you can charge without being plugged in (read: while on airplane with dyiing iPad or phone, at a restaurant in your purse, etc.). It’s perfect for traveling!
  • Snacks. Airport food is still lackluster. It’s nice to have healthy fuel in your carry-on for car rides, airplanes and when you find yourself low on blood sugar, but nowhere near food. I like having healthy things on me, that I can trust.

What about you? What keeps you sane and happy when you travel?

You Get What You Pay For

2012 May 23
by Grace Boyle

Post-college, my professional career has been with startups.

Some of the pieces that come with working at a startup include: limited budget, wearing many hats, moving swiftly/not being calcified, experimenting, trying different resources until one sticks and working, hard and long hours.

I’ve been paying close attention to our changes and evolution and what really is a simple idea has come to fruition recently. That is, you get what you pay for and quality trumps quantity.

Personally, my two blogs are mini-businesses or as I like to affectionately call them, jobbies (a job + a hobby).

Over the last 4 years of blogging, I’ve been approached with a number of business propositions and people requesting help or exposure.

At first, I said yes to everything. I was new to blogging and was wide-eyed and bushy tailed.

After the first year, I became more discerning in who I worked with and in what capacity. After all, this isn’t a revenue generating monster, rather, a blog where my thoughts and ideas reside. A labor of love (Grace(full) Plate is also very much like that).

I note that I am extremely grateful for all these opportunities and I attribute my blog to business relationships, friendships, boyfriend, jobs and interesting people abound. But I digress…

The experience:

A while back I was approached by someone (we didn’t know each other) to provide some design work on my blog as they were launching a new design business.

I needed a few things done but didn’t have much energy to devote and had just paid to have the site setup and built. I was offered a highly discounted rate (read: killer price) for exposure to the beginning design work they were doing to help build their portfolio.

After a bit of back and forth, I agreed. I’m pretty relaxed about these things and worst case scenario I didn’t have to use the work, and wouldn’t be out too much money.

What unfolded was a confusing process where I wasn’t sure they had asked for enough information for me in terms of design guidance and frustration on both parts. Furthermore, the project took longer than projected, the communication was lacking, expectations were not set and there were a slew of mistakes made on their end (this is all in email, I can look back and see it now).

I wouldn’t say it was anyone’s fault but the lack of knowledge in client facing work and the difficult task of designing for someone else’s eye and opinion, was apparent. After all, even if I was “difficult” (I don’t think I was out of line) I’m still the paying client and interpersonal skills are imperative.

When I pay someone, I expect to be guided through the process and asked for the resources that I need to provide and then to complete the final project, upload or incorporate those design pieces to my blog (or tell me how to). That didn’t happen. I had to ask many times.

It had nothing to do with this person being a bad person and honestly, I hadn’t worked with a designer much before so I was a newbie as a customer.

When we finally were honest with each other and the project was completed, I wanted to move on and learn from it. It has been quite some time since this happened and the chapter is now closed but it took me some time to realize, at a cheap price that’s likely what you may receive. How could I expect more when it was in that capacity, us both doing each other a “favor.”

I felt bad, of course I would never have wanted it to go down that way. Neither party did. But why was it such a mess?

Same concept as a volunteer. You can’t expect too much from them, as it’s a free volunteer and they often aren’t 100% available or devoted all the time.

Next time, I go through someone I knew (referrals always trump blindly using someone you don’t know or doesn’t have testimonials) and will pay the price that’s worth it. I’ve worked with a couple other designers on different needs since and it was pretty breezy.

You get what you pay for. Simple.

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